Expression of the symposium (divorce in our society)
Divorce is a social psychological problem .. A general phenomenon in all societies and appears to be increasingly widespread in the Gulf Mojtmaatna in modern times .. Divorce is the (most hated thing) because of its negative implications for the disintegration of the family and the increasing hostility and hatred and negative effects on children and then the social and psychological effects from the many mental disorders to deviant behavior, crime, etc. ..
What is no doubt that regulate the relationship between men and women and family formation has attracted the attention of thinkers since a long time .. We find in all religions, laws and ethics classes and wide to regulate the relationship and ensure the existence and continuity. And interested in religion and intellectuals, sociologists and psychologists, this relationship .. Each side tries to present Maikhaddm the success of this relationship because this is the continuation of life itself, happiness and development ..
There are many reasons for divorce, including the duo boredom and ease of change and find alternative and the tyranny of material life and the search for pleasures and the spread of selfish and weak character. All of this needs to be reform and the need to uphold the values and virtues and good example .. Among other reasons (adultery) and agree a lot of views on the impossibility of continuing the relationship after the occurrence of marital infidelity, especially in the treacherous situation of women .. In the case of the man he betrayed different opinions abound and justifications that are trying to support the continuation of the marital relationship .. In our country, this phenomenon seems to be rare Mgaronp with other communities ..
Here we come to an important cause of the causes of divorce, which is ((a mismatch between the couple) and includes compatibility intellectual and agree personal foul and harmony of the spiritual and emotional .. and of course, these generalizations difficult selection .. It is hard to find a man and a woman were getting closer in all things .. and here are different scales with mean words (compatibility) and to what extent this should be done .. and we must modify our ideas and expectations on the subject of compatibility because it benefits a lot to accept husbands to their wives and vice versa .. and ideals lead to dissatisfaction and to disease relationship and degradation .. In practical, we find that to be a minimum of similarity in the case of the continuation of the marital relationship to its success ..
Born alike in the convergence and cooperation .. And variation is generated revulsion and hatred and negative feelings .. The similarity does not mean that one spouse is a replica of the other .. Can the differences between the spouses to be useful as she was in the framework of integration and difference that makes the building the relationship varied and exciting and vital .. If the difference is large or competitive, it was hostile spouses away from each other and fed by hatred and revulsion and intolerance, leading to divorce ..
We find that the number of people lacking ((sensitivity to the wishes of the other and his feelings or inexperienced in dealing with others)) and that because of his character and composition of inertia or for educational reasons and the harsh conditions and a variety of Ahramanat or for reasons of ignorance and inexperience.
The scourge of modern divorce intrusive on the table of science and morality in our societies and must be that everyone come together to reduce the increase did not realize it, they will eat the green and Elias .. What we hear that the divorce rate in our communities has become a scary it's become a real disaster ..